⊙ 宁可失败在你喜欢的事情上，也不要成功在你所憎恶的事情上。
To lost in something you love is better than to win in something you hate.
⊙ 幸福，不是长生不老，不是大鱼大肉，不是权倾朝野。幸福是每一个微小的生活愿望达成。当你想吃的时候有得吃，想被爱的时候有人来爱你。
Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand.It's about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eatwhen you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.
⊙ 爱情是灯，友情是影子，当灯灭了，你会发现你的周围都是影子。朋友，是在最后可以给你力量的人。
Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off, you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength atlast.
⊙ 我爱你不是因为你是谁，而是我在你面前可以是谁。
I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.
⊙ 许多人向往水晶般的爱情——晶莹剔透没有一点瑕疵。更多人拥有的却是玻璃般的爱情——同样透明但容易破碎。
Most of people are looking forward the crystal-like love—pure without anydefect. However the truth is most people are having the glass-likelove-same transparent but easily broken.
⊙ 我们每个人都生活在各自的过去中，人们会用一分钟的时间去认识一个人，用一小时的时间去喜欢一个人，再用一天的时间去爱上一个人，到最后呢，却要用一辈子的时间去忘记一个人。
We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour tolike someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forgetsomeone.
⊙ 一个人一生可以爱上很多的人，等你获得真正属于你的幸福之后，你就会明白一起的伤痛其实是一种财富，它让你学会更好地去把握和珍惜你爱的人。
One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finallyget your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness iskind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the peopleyou love.
⊙ 我将暴风般的爱情藏在心底，那是为了不给对方任何心理压力，我的爱情越是珍贵，相对地，也越珍惜别人的爱情。
I hide my storm-like love in my heart just not to give you any pressure.The more precious my love is, the more I cherish the love from others.
⊙ 爱一个女孩子，与其为了她的幸福而放弃她，不如留住她，为她的幸福而努力。
If you love a girl, it's better to fight for her happiness than to abandon her for the sake of her happiness.
⊙ 暗恋一个人的心情，就像是瓶中等待发芽的种子，永远不能确定未来是否是美丽的，但却真心而倔强的等待着。
To love someone in secret is like a seed in bottle waiting for growing up,though not sure whether the future will be more beautiful, stillwaiting it earnestly and eagerly.
⊙ 女性在所有礼物中，认为花朵最有价值的原因：是因为男性在送花给女性的时候必须克服那种把花拿在手上走在街道上的羞涩感觉。
The reason why girls consider flowers as the most valuable gift among othergifts is that men have to overcome the shyness of holding the flowersin streets before sending them to girls.
⊙ 不是不让你知道我的存在，只是不奢求爱情会降临到我头上，有时候想，我们是不同水域的动物，虽然我很艳羡你那个世界的美丽，但是浅水区的我一走近，就会被深水淹死。
I never let you not to know my existence, but I just never thought thatlove will fall upon on my head. Sometimes, I just wonder, we are fromdifferent waters, although I admire your world, I will be drowned if Iget close to you.
⊙ 当你认为被抛弃的时候，受损失的其实是对方：因为他失去了一个真正喜欢他的人，而你只不过少了一个不喜欢你的人罢了。
When someone abandons you, it is him that gets loss because he lost someonewho truly loves him but you just lost one who doesn't love you.
⊙ 年轻的时候会想要谈很多次恋爱，但是随着年龄的增长，终于领悟到爱一个人，就算用一辈子的时间，还是会嫌不够。慢慢地去了解这个人，体谅这个人，直到爱上为止，是需要有非常宽大的胸襟才行。
When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goeson, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole lifewill not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. Allthis needs a very big mind.
⊙ 原来爱情的世界很大，大到可以装下一百种委屈；原来爱情的世界很小，小到三个人就挤到窒息；原来爱情的世界很大，塞了多少幸福还是有空隙；原来爱情的世界很小，被一脚踩过就变成废墟。
The love world is big, which can hold hundreds of disappointments; the love worldis small which is crowded even with three people inside. The love world is big,it still has space for more happiness; the love world is small which will beruined after one tread.
⊙ 人生并非都是选择题或是是非题，大部分是应用题，要我们一点一滴的论证，取舍的过程，做错了也没关系。
The life is not always full of multiple choices or the yes-or-no questions,but application questions which need us to prove little by little. During theprocess, we need to make choice to get or lose. It matters not even if we getwrong answers.
⊙ 离开我就别安慰我，要知道每一次缝补也会遭遇穿刺的痛。
If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meetstinging pain.
⊙ 自己爱的人同时也爱着自己，这简直是一种奇迹，神明为这种奇迹取了一个名字，叫作恋爱。
The one you love also loves you. This is a miracle. And the god names thisas falling in love with each other.
⊙ 缘分不是人海中两个人的擦身，缘分是不可能的相遇。比如我是空中的鸟，你是林中的豹，只是我们碰巧相爱。
Love is not about running into each other in crowds. Love is an impossiblemeeting. For example, I am a bird flying in sky, you are a leopardin forest. We just fall in love accidentally.
⊙ 寂寞确实跟孤单不一样，孤单只表示身边没有别人，但寂寞是一种你无法将感受跟别人沟通或分享的心理状态。而真正的寂寞应该是连自己都忘了喜欢一个人的感觉。
Lone liness is different from being alone. Being alone means you just have noone beside you but loneliness means that you can not talk with others and sharethem with your feelings. And the true loneliness is that you even forget how itfeels when you love someone.
⊙ 并不是因为安定了，所以想要结婚，就是无法与某人安定下去了，所以才要结婚。
It's not because of stability that someone wants to marry, but because oflack of stability.
⊙ 我们总是要求男人有孩子一样的眼神，但要有父亲一样的能力。
We always ask for man to innocent as child, but able as father.
⊙ 女人心是只盛水的玻璃瓶，明明已经装的满满的，却又好像什么都没有。
The heart of woman is a glass holding water. It is full but seems to havenothing inside.
⊙ 当你的心真的在痛，眼泪快要流下来的时候，那就赶快抬头看看，这片曾经属于我们的天空；当天依旧是那么的广阔，云依旧那么的潇洒，那就不应该哭，因为我的离去，并没有带走你的世界。
When you feel hurt and your tears are gonna to drop. Please look up and havea look at the sky once belongs to us. If the sky is still vast, cloudsare still clear, you shall not cry because my leave doesn't take away the worldthat belongs to you.
⊙ 两人相爱是，渴求无限甜蜜的吻。但为何在争吵时，却要用接吻的嘴互相伤害呢？每当我忧郁困惑，疲惫不堪时，我只能给自己一个吻。
When two people are in love, they are eager to have more sweet kisses. Butwhy they are in quarrel, they are hurting each other by the mouths that onceused for kissing? Every time when I was upset or tired, I can only kiss bymyself.
⊙ 当明天变成了今天成为了昨天，最后成为记忆里不再重要的某一天，我们突然发现自己在不知不觉中已被时间推着向前走，这不是静止火车里，与相邻列车交错时，仿佛自己在前进的错觉，而是我们真实的在成长，在这件事里成了另一个自己。
When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more importantin ur memory, we suddenly realize that we r pushed forward by time. This is nota train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It isthe truth that we've all grown up. And we become different.
⊙ 你以为最酸的感觉是吃醋吗？不是的，最酸溜溜的感觉是没权吃醋，根本就轮不到你吃醋，那才是最酸最酸的。
Do you think that the sourest feeling is to be jealous? No, the sourestthing is that you have no rights to be jealous. That's the sourest thing.
⊙ 爱，有何必多问？问得太多，只怕就不爱了。成熟的人不问过去；聪明的人不问现在；豁达的人不问未来。
Why to ask so much when you are in love? If you ask too much, maybe you nolonger love. The mature never ask the past, the wise never ask the present andthe open-minded never ask the future.
⊙ 人原本就是在星星上出生的，暂时居住在这颗叫做地球的星星上，因此，任何一个人，都是具有星星般美好的心灵，生命尽管有限，依然不断用微笑和爱向他人散发光芒。
People are used to born in the stars. They just temporarily live in the starwhich is called the earth. Therefore, everyone has a star-like heart. The lifeis limited, but they still shine with their smiles and love.
⊙ 什么是爱情的完成呢？如果结婚才是爱的完成的话，那离婚又算什么呢？当我开始爱一个人的时候就是爱的完成。
What's the accomplishment of love? If marriage is the accomplishment, howabout divorce? When I begin to love someone, it is the accomplishmentof love.
⊙ 被自己所爱的人深爱着是什么样的感觉呢？会是什么样子呢？想要立刻回答的人，你要知道自己是多么幸福的人。虽然一直强辩说，单恋也是一种爱情，但单用一边的手掌是拍不出声音的。
How it feels when you are loved by the one you love? How could it be like?If you wanna answer it immediately, you shall know how happy you are.Although you insist loving on your own is also called love, one palmcan not make noises.
⊙ 只有跟你在一起的时候我才是活着的，我一个人的时候，就连最耀眼的太阳也失去光彩！
I am alive only when I am with you. When I am alone, the most dazzling sun seems to have lost the brilliance.
⊙ 你越想知道自己是不是忘记的时候，你反而记得越清楚，我曾经听人说过，当你不能再拥有的时候，唯一可以做的就是令自己不要忘记。
The more you wanna know whether you have forgotten something, the betteryou remember; I once heard that, the only thing you can do when you nolonger have something is not to forget.
⊙ 你的诞生带给我希望，而我希望带给你幸福。
Your birth gives me hope and I hope to give you happiness.
⊙ 生活在没有的你的世界，比任何一种惩罚都要痛苦，你知道吗，对我而言，你是任何人都无法取代的。
To live in a world without you is more painful than any punishment. Do you know that no one can replace you in my heart?
⊙ 人的一生，有两种遗憾最折磨人：一是得不到你心爱的人；二是心爱的人得不到幸福。
During the whole life, you will regret for two things: one is that you don'tget the one you love and the other is the one you love is not happy.
⊙ 举得起放得下的叫举重，举得起放不下的叫负重。可惜，大多数人的爱情，都是负重的。
If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting;if you can hold something up but can never put it down, it's calledburden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdenswhen they are in love.
⊙ 爱情，要么让人成熟，要么让人堕落。
Love makes man grow up or sink down.
⊙ 一个人总要走陌生的路，看陌生的风景，听陌生的歌，然后在某个不经意的瞬间，你会发现，原本是费尽心机想要忘记的事情真的就那么忘记了。
One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening tostrange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hardto forget are already gone.
⊙ 如果花开了，就喜欢；如果花落了，就放弃。陪你在路上满心欢喜是因为风景，不是因为你。
If it blossoms, I will love; if not, give up. I just accompany you merrily forthe sake of scenery not for you.
⊙ 千万别交一个无法替代的情人，否则你就会成为那个可以替代的情人。情人之间的自由就如同过期的支票，你可以继续拥有，但却无法兑现。
Never get a lover that no one can replace, otherwise you will be easilyreplaced. The freedom between lovers is like an overdue check that you can ownit forever but can not turn it in cash.
⊙ 我知道这世上有人在等我，但我不知道我在等谁，为了这个，我每天都非常快乐。
I know someone in the world is waiting for me, although I've no idea of whohe is. But I feel happy every day for this.
⊙ 当我们满怀喜悦和惆怅的成长已经成为一种可以被讲述的故事时，我们发现我们从未遵守过任何一个诺言，但我们真的真心真意相爱过。
When we grow up with happiness and sorrows, a story is coming out. We findthat we never abide by any promise, but we really loved each other at one time.
⊙ 我安慰自己，虽然在最底最底的位置，看不到花儿绽放是的艳丽，然而却总不会错过花瓣飘落时在风中悠扬飞舞的浪漫。
I comfort myself like this: although I am in the lowest place, seeing nowflowers blossoming, I can always witness the romance when the petals fall downand fly in the wind.
⊙ 所有的爱情故事都有相同之处，在我生命的某一时刻我也经历过这些，然而我已记不得这些。我所记得的是，爱是以另一个男人的形式，带着新的希望，新的梦想重回我心中。
All the love stories have something in common. Once upon a time, I have thatexperience too. but I can not remember it clearly. All I can remember is thatlove returns with another man bringing new hopes to me.
⊙ 曾经有机会目睹他最软弱最糟糕的时刻，你仍然能够微笑接受他的不完美，并且和他共同拥有这个秘密，这段爱情才能够长久一些。
Once I have the chance to witness his worst moment, but you still can accepthis defects and keep this as secret. Then ur love will last longer.
⊙ 我相信了你编写的童话，自己就成了童话中幽蓝的花。
I believe in the fairy story you wrote for me, and myself becomes the faintflower in the story.
⊙ 钟情，相思，暗恋，渴慕，等待，失望，试探，患得患失，痛不欲生，天涯永隔，追忆似水流年……种种这些，都曾因你而经历，也就誓不言悔。
Love you, think of you, love you secretly, eagerly love you, wait, feel disappointed, try hard, lose, and feel sad, go apart, and recall.All of these are for sake of you. And I will never regret for it.
⊙在友情的盆栽中培养爱情不是件容易的事，但是在长出爱情的盆栽里培养友情是件更困难的事。如果掏空了我心中的土，是否能培养出过去那种友呢？
It's not easy to change friendship into love. But it's even harder to turn love into friendship. If I swallow my heart, whether I can regain the friendship once I had.
⊙幸福的关键不在与找到一个完美的人，而在找到任何一个人，然后和他一起努力建立一个完美的关系。
The key for happiness is not find a perfect person, but find someone and build a perfect relationship with him.
⊙在我们生命中出现的人，一些给我们上课，一些让我们痊愈，有的用来分担分享，有的用来真爱。
Among those people that appear in our life, some are to teach us, some to comfortus, some to share and some to love.
⊙与其等到别人来爱你，不如自己学着努力多爱自己一些，如果今天的你没有比昨天更喜欢自己，那明天对你来说又有什么意义呢？
It's better to try hard to love yourself more than to wait someone to love u. if today u don't like yourself more than yesterday, so what's the meaning of tomorrow?
⊙有一个人让我觉得很安心，所以想要依靠他，而另一个人让我觉得很孤单，所以想要拥抱他。
Someone makes me comfortable, so I want to rely onhim; while another one makes me feel lonely, so I want to embrace him.
⊙一段不被接受的爱情，需要的不是伤心，而是时间，一段可以用来遗忘的时间。一颗被深深伤了的心，需要的不是同情，而是明白。
An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting. A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.
⊙当一个人谁都不爱的时候，他就可以爱上身边的任何一个人。
When someone loves none, he will fall in love with anyone around him.
⊙女人如果不性感，就要感性；如果没有感性，就要理性；如果没有理性，就要有自知之明；如果连这个都没有了，她只有不幸。
If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.
⊙一个有着优美背影的女人的最佳动作是背身离去——回忆就是这样一种女人。
The best for a woman who has nice figure is to turn around and leave. This kind of women will be always in memory.
⊙每段爱情在走向终结时，倒带回去，一路上或花草鲜美，或落英缤纷，而最初总是倾心的。
When every love comes to the end, if you look back, u will find flowers and sorrows, but it's always beautiful.
⊙宽恕，原谅并不代表忘记，也不代表赦免，而是放自己一条生路。孤单不是有没有朋友的关系，而是有没有住在你的心里。
To forgive is not to forget, nor remit, but let it go; to be lonely is not becoz u have no friends, but no one is living in your heart.
⊙人都是会改变的，有些人选择改变环境，有些人选择被环境改变。很多时候你无法改变的时候，我只好选择，在里面找到让自己快乐的力量。
People will always change. Some choose to change the environment; some choose to be changed by the environment. Most of the time when u cannot change, u have to choose to find something to make yourself happy.
⊙事实上，这个世界不符合所有人的梦想。只是有人可以学会遗忘，有人却坚持。
The fact is that the world is out of everyone's expectation. But some learn to forget, but others insist.
⊙如果你爱一个人，你会了解她的一切，而不需要问她；如果你不爱一个人，即使她告诉你她的一切，你也还是会忘记的。
If u love someone, u will know everything about her without asking her; if u don't love someone, u will forget everything even if she told u everything.
⊙我不觉得人的心智成熟是越来越宽容涵盖，什么都可以接受。相反，我觉得那应该是一个逐渐剔除的过程，知道自己最重要的是什么，知道不重要的东西是什么。而后，做一个纯洁的人。
I don't think that when people grow up, they will become more broad-minded and can accept everything. Conversely, I think it's a selecting process, knowing what's the most important and what's the least. And then be a simple man.
⊙你是幸运的，因为你可以选择爱我或不爱我，而我只能选择爱你还是更爱你。
you're so lucky, coz u can choose to love me or not, but myself only have to choose from loving u or loving u more.
⊙无论命运以怎样残忍的方式赐予一个人以磨难和不幸，但仍会相应地赐予他幸福与甜蜜，即使这幸福是如此短暂与不真实，也足以照亮他今后整个暗淡的人生。
No matter how cruel the destiny treats one with tribulation and misfortune, it will correspondingly treat him with happiness and sweetness. Even if the happiness is short and false, it's enough to light up the whole future life.
⊙一生至少该有一次，为了某个人而忘了自己，不求有结果，不求同行，不求曾经拥有，甚至不求你爱我。只求在我最美的年华里，遇到你。
In ur life, there will at least one time that u forget yourself for someone, asking for no result, no company, no ownership nor love. Just ask for meeting u in my most beautiful years.
⊙如果不是你，我现在肯定只能在绝望和恐惧中颤抖，发出痛苦的呻吟。但是因为有了你，我，每天都可以梦想最美丽的离别。因为你拿整个生命来爱我，所以我的心获得了自由。我的生命正在慢慢地离开我，好象沙子从沙漏中流走一样，我听到了那流逝的声音，但只要你还熟睡在我身旁，我就依然笑得出来。
If not for you, I must be shivering in the despair and fear, groaning painfully. But for you, every day I will dream the most beautiful apart. Becoz u use your whole life to love me, and I feel free. My life seems to leave me like the sand flowing. I can hear that, but I can still smile only as long as I see you sleeping by my side.
⊙生命最大的恐惧，不过是来自于心底那个不去发现的黑暗，但是灵魂告诉我们，只要还有心跳，就一定有勇气。
The most fearful thing in the life is the darkness deep in your heart. But soul told us that u shall have courage as long as the heart beats.
⊙这个世界最易碎的就是男人的酒杯，政客的承诺，少女的梦想，钢丝上的爱情，现代社会的善良和高贵的心。
The most easily broken thing in the world is the man's wine glass, politician's promise, girls' dream, steel wire-like love, the virtuousof modern society and the holy heart.
⊙我以为呵出一口气，能化作晴天的云，没想到竟在眼角凝结成雨滴。在这个寒冷的冬夜里，爱情像一种奢侈品，让相爱的人更幸福，让落单的人禁不起。
I thought that the breath could be changed into the clouds in fine days. However, it turns into rain drops in my eyelash. In such a cold winter evening, love is luxury, making couples more happy and the single lonelier.
⊙我喜欢并习惯了对变化的东西保持着距离，这样才会知道什么是最不会被时间抛弃的准则。比如爱一个人，充满变数，我于是后退一步，静静的看着，直到看见真诚的感情。
I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed things. Only in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when u love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.