首先摆明观点，可使用，但必须是new产生的对像，注意，这里数组也不可以。
在C++ FAQ看到该问题的阐述，原文如下：
[16.15] Is it legal (and moral) for a member function to say delete this?
As long as you’re careful, it’s OK for an object to commit suicide (delete this).
Here’s how I define “careful”:
- You must be absolutely 100% positive sure that this object was allocated via new (not by new[], nor by placement new, nor a local object on the stack, nor a global, nor a member of another object; but by plain ordinary new).
- You must be absolutely 100% positive sure that your member function will be the last member function invoked on this object.
- You must be absolutely 100% positive sure that the rest of your member function (after the delete this line) doesn’t touch any piece of this object (including calling any other member functions or touching any data members).
- You must be absolutely 100% positive sure that no one even touches the this pointer itself after the delete this line. In other words, you must not examine it, compare it with another pointer, compare it with NULL, print it, cast it, do anything with it.
Naturally the usual caveats apply in cases where your this pointer is a pointer to a base class when you don’t have a virtual destructor.
上面提到了“自杀”时需要注意4点：
1. 对象是通过最简单的new运算符分配到空间的，而非new[]，也不是内存定位的new（比如new§ Q），更不是栈上面的、全局的，最后该对象不能是另外一个对象的成员；
2. 负责自杀的成员函数应该是该对象最后调用的成员函数；
3. 负责自杀的成员函数在delete this;这一条语句后面不能再去访问对象的其它成员；
4. 对象自杀后，不能再去访问this指针；
最后说明了一句，如果this指针指向一个不具有虚析构函数的基类对象，往往会出现警告。
对于上面要注意的4点，有的即使不遵守也不会出现警告或者错误，但是会有安全隐患。因为delete this;语句得到调用后，指向该对象的指针就是野指针了，这时候内存中的内容可能保持完整并且可以被访问，使得数据仍然有效，但是安全的编码风格应该保证内存释放后不能再对它进行访问，避免潜在风险。