Passgae 4
Americans feel that physical contact can be important in breaking down barriers between people.
Such physical acts as hugging, shaking hands and kissing in public are seen as displays of affection.
In China, on the other hand, this is not common because physical contact is not the custom.
Interestingly enough, most Chinese who spend some time in America come to like hugging; they learning that Americans use body language to express feelings.
It is a way of saying "I like you and I care about you."
Shaking hands is another traditional way of greeting someone in America.
Shaking hands is a more formal way of greeting than hugging.
Whereas hugging shows closeness, shaking hands means that there is a little more formality in the relationship.
Western people usually shake hands when meeting someone for the first time, or when they see someone again after a certain amount of time has passed.
In Japan, people traditionally bow as a form of greeting.
Other countries have different customs, like patting someone on the back or kissing.
"孤独不是给别人机会来可怜你，而是给你机会发现更强大的自己。"